conference call

last nyt wen i was talking to my friend on the phone she invited me to a conference call to someone i hated most way back on college..guess who? i was really surprised and burst into laughter...yeah why not give it a try, past past ryt? so while she's was dialling the number i'm so curious what would be my reaction when i hear his voice....then conversation started, and honestly it was fun and spontaneous..i didn't even feel slight hatred or anger to that person.im not even pretending...ahahahah... after the talked, i PM my guy friend and told him that i just talked to "my-most-hated-person" on the phone.. and all he says that " carmz maybe its tym to heal that wound and the more u forgive the more grace you will receive from God" now that eligthened me? what you think???